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We need to see the human in each of us; we need to treat each other with kindness. Itโs who we areโhumankind. Through everyday stories about family, illness, community, I explore how we can keep finding meaning, nurture our human connection, and live up to the word that defines us.
My two most favorite words
Who knew that one day I would become a storyseeker and โonly connectโ would become my mantra.
โWhat a beautiful time we spent togetherโ
Abderrahim caught sight of the Arabic tattooed on Zaydโs biceps; I whispered to him to cover it up โฆ
Every life lost a story
Loss cannot be expressed with a concise, terse number, no matter the number of digits it contains. Each person lost is a life story.
Reaching for hope
Itโs hard to write a โhumanKINDโ newsletter when we are witnessing daily acts of inhumanity. Perhaps what I can offer is a place of refugeโa place to gather to dare to hope, as we continue to agitate for peace.
Flying with chains
It was a challenging summer, mainly with health issuesโmy father-in-lawโs, my momโs, my own. But it was an unexpected trip at the end of the summer that helped me put things in perspective.
Weโre all storytellers
Iโm not sure how the conversation with the Pakistani High Commissioner in London started with my telling him the story of how Arif and I first met and he poured the whole bottle of chilli pepper into the curry he was cookingโnot the usual way to start a formal meeting with a high-level diplomat youโre meeting for the first time!
What would you keep?
My dad bought this figurine from his familyโs auction house in Kolkata when he was maybe 18 or 19. Why did this piece catch his eye?
My word of 2023
Be present, take your time, enjoy the process, let life simmer, take a deep breath and cool it down, savor the results โ and slurp as needed!
A letter of gratitude
Whenever you came into the room to check on Arif, you stood by his bedside and placed your hand on his arm or held his hand in yours; that physical touch was so reassuring, even I felt it.
A cancer journey in letters
โIโve got good news and bad news.โ Not exactly the words you want to hear from a doctor. โItโs not malignant,โ she said. โBut it is atypical.โ
Life Lessons for my Son
Lying prone on a day bed gave me time to think about what I wanted to say to my dear Zayd as he embarks on this next chapter in his lifeโbuilding his second start-up in one of the greatest cities in the world, while exploring the โlife of the mindโ at an incredible institution that holds so many memories for Arif and myself
Coming to America
Iโm reminded me of the very first personal story I wanted to write โ the one that revealed to me the power of our ordinary stories, and which ended up changing my life.
When Arif Met Salma
I walked into the suite, he turned around and saw me, and poured the whole bottle of red pepper in his curry!
A story about a katori
I see a story in just about everything; and then ask myself whatโs the deeper meaning. Like this katori. It had a story to tell. I simply asked.
Kindness Wins!
"We believe that each one of us can make a difference, right now. We may not be able to solve all of the world's problems, but we can do something to make the life of one person a little easier,
Pakistan on the Potomac
Being a cross-cultural parent in Washington can mean teaching your children the Koran โ and then carpooling them to hip-hop class.
"She never met a stranger"
This is George, outside his childhood home in Mclean. His mom Evelyn lived here for 65 years, until she died last year at age 96. George wanted to donate all the furniture to the Afghan refuge